Losing temper in any work is good or bad? Is it good or bad to be short tempered? Can having a high temper be a good or bad thing?
In our daily life we are involved in various useful tasks. To
perform these important tasks, we have to talk to different people or
communicate with people of different professions almost every day. Based on your work, you need to talk to the right person. But many lose their natural temper by saying this. As a result of which we sometimes lose our temper which is a bad omen for the future. However, many people irrationally consider showing temper to be good or a form of smartness. In fact, while asserting his greatness, the person who has lost his temper becomes arrogant without knowing it. Let's tell a short story about this. Then the matter will become very clear.
Mr. Nasir is the Managing Director (MD) of a company. So he will go to office like every day. His house is in Dhaka. And factory office at Savar, Ashulia. Ashraful Saheb is the private driver of MD. Although a private driver, Ashraful Saheb does a lot of MD's work. Get extra part of exchange salary. But his exchange driver, Ashraful, almost every day has a discussion with the MD on some work or the other. The driver does not argue with the MD on his own, but the MD verbally loses his temper with the driver and scolds him in various ways.
Driver Ashraful thought almost every day that he would quit the job today if he could not bear this reproach. But after thinking again, if you work somewhere else, you will have to do the same work, you will have to look for a job again, etc., the driver continues the job despite the MD's rebuke. So one day, like every day, driver Ashraful came to MD's office in the morning. The car is kept in the garage right next to the office. While taking out the car, the driver Ashraful checks all the devices of the car to see if the car is suitable for taking out on the road today or not. If convenient, he comes from the garage to the office to do the MD's personal work.
Driver Ashraful thought almost every day that he would quit the job today if he could not bear this reproach. But after thinking again, if you work somewhere else, you will have to do the same work, you will have to look for a job again, etc., the driver continues the job despite the MD's rebuke. So one day, like every day, driver Ashraful came to MD's office in the morning. The car is kept in the garage right next to the office. While taking out the car, the driver Ashraful checks all the devices of the car to see if the car is suitable for taking out on the road today or not. If convenient, he comes from the garage to the office to do the MD's personal work.
The driver said, Sir, I think you have written wrongly. Hearing this, MD burst into anger. He said to Ashraful in anger, I have not done anything wrong. In response, Ashraful said very softly, Sir, you are writing one zero less than fifty thousand words. I wrote a zero in the word. MD said, well done. Now hurry to the bank. Ashraful went to the bank, withdrew the money and deposited the money in M/s Harun Enterprises as per the MD and came to the office. MD came to the office and said, Sir, I am depositing the money. Hearing about the deposit of money, MD burst into anger again. He said, I asked you to take the money and bring it to me. After hearing this, the driver Ashraful was surprised and said, "Sir, you did not say that fifty thousand taka should be withdrawn from the bank and given to Harun Enterprises." I came with it.
MD has actually forgotten that he himself told Harun Enterprises to give the fifty thousand rupees. But MD's mood got so bad that he started shouting with the driver Ashraful and scolding Ashraful. MD started saying I don't understand anything, I didn't ask you to give money to Harun Enterprises. I asked to bring it to me (MD). Driver Ashraful said, then I will return the money to you sir. But the MD did not pay attention to that. On the contrary, I never asked you to pay me, I asked you to bring it to me. Go...get money fast. After hearing MD's words, driver Ashraful said sorry sir. I am bringing the money immediately.
Ashraful went to M/s Haroon Enterprise and explained everything. After hearing everything, the Haroon Enterprise authorities returned the entire fifty thousand rupees to the driver Ashraful. Ashraful returned to MD with the money back. The money was returned to MDK. MD started counting the money well. Saw a thousand rupees less. Then MD was very angry. Angry MD said, have you removed a thousand rupees? Give 1000 rupees quickly. Driver Ashraful said, Sir I may be poor, but honest man. I don't have this money of yours. In fact, while counting the money, two five hundred taka notes fell from the MD's hand under the MD's table. In the meantime, MD and his driver Ashraful continued to argue. MD became very excited. Excited and started scolding Ashraful....at one stage MD clutched his chest with his left hand and fell on the floor of the office. Everyone in the office caught MD and brought him to the hospital. The doctor on duty at the hospital declared MD dead. (Innanillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Raziun). MD died of heart attack. Finally MD went to his factory office in Ashulia, Savar today. We all went to the eternal abode of the grave.